10 Ways to Turn Masturbation Into Super-Hot Partner Play

When we think about masturbation, we often assume that it is an entirely solo act. Whether that means a quick session in your shower or a long drawn-out session in your bed, there’s typically only one person participating.

While masturbation is quite incredible on your own, there can be an added dimension when you bring a partner into the mix. We’re talking about mutual masturbation!

Here are 10 ways to share the fun!

1. Try a New Toy

Go shopping for a new sex toy, accessory or lubricant together, and then try it out... alone. Find something you think you will both enjoy and exchange notes on what you liked or didn’t like.

You get to have fun with a new product as well as learn about your partner’s preferences. If you’re sharing a sex toy, make sure to properly sterilize it.

Never tried sex toys before? Seek out a toy like a vibrator with a broad surface area that can be used in all different kinds of erogenous zones!

2. Check Yourself Out!

Have you ever watched yourselves have sex in a mirror and enjoyed the views that you don’t get to often see? Well, why not try that out with masturbation!

Find the largest mirror in your home and get in front of it! Position yourselves so that you both get a great view of the other person. It's self pleasure while getting off together!

3. Look the Other Way

Alternatively, don’t face each other at all. Position yourselves so that you can’t see anything your partner is doing. Then, when you start masturbating, describe what is happening with words and moans. It's a great tease - and a huge turn-on!

You can also try out some app-controlled sex toys! Swap phones or sync your app to your partner's toy and try controlling each others toys while you're in different rooms!

4. Educate Each Other

Take turns showing each other exactly what you like. Take this time to really pay attention and appreciate all of the intricacies of masturbation. You don’t need to put on an unrealistic show to do this, you just need to be 100% honest about what you like or don’t like.

Your partner will love watching you and learning how to please you. If you’re feeling a bit shy, ask your partner to go first.

5. Put It On Film

This is great for any relationship, near or far! Each one of you should film yourselves masturbating and then you can exchange the videos!

Of course, everyone involved has to enthusiastically consent to filming a sexual act and then sharing it. If you don’t want to physically hand over the file, watch the completed videos together.

6. Study Facial Expressions

Sit down in front of each other or lie down facing each other. Keep a little separation between both of you so there is space to masturbate. Don’t speak to each other and don’t look at what your hands are doing.