Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

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First Time at Anal Sex? Here’s the Ultimate Guide

First Time at Anal Sex? Here’s the Ultimate Guide

With a little preparation, some realistic expectations, and careful communication, anal play can be a great addition to your sexual repertoire.

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Bondage for All Bodies

Bondage for All Bodies

Bondage can be fun for bodies of all sizes, genders and abilities--not just for slim, young cis-females.

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Anal Play and IBS – Why It Doesn’t Have to Be a No Go

Anal Play and IBS – Why It Doesn’t Have to Be a No Go

Anal sex with health considerations isn’t all that different from other kinds of sex. Know your body, communicate and take care of you!

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Got a Vulva? Here’s How to Love Oral Sex

Got a Vulva? Here’s How to Love Oral Sex

Sometimes it can be hard to just let go and enjoy. Here are some tips that will help you fully experience the pleasure and intimacy that oral sex has to offer.

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The Rise of Online Sex and Relationship Support

The Rise of Online Sex and Relationship Support

Not all online sex ed is created equal.

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