Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

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Strap-On (Fore) Play
Strap-On (Fore) Play

Looking to start experimenting with harnesses and dildos? A strap-on blow job is a good place to start.

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Scared to Buy Your First Sex Toy? Here’s What to Do
Scared to Buy Your First Sex Toy? Here’s What to Do

Sex toys can do amazing things for your body. Here's how to throw off your fears and find one you'll love.

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The Ultimate Guide to Having Anal Sex
The Ultimate Guide to Having Anal Sex

Anal sex is one of the most common fantasies people have, but getting it right involves some preparation - and practice.

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Your Step-by-Step Guide to Fisting
Your Step-by-Step Guide to Fisting

Being inside of your partner, or having your partner inside of you, creates incredible intimacy. Plus, because fisting must be done slowly and carefully, it gives partners a chance to really connect.

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The Right – and Wrong – Way to Have a Threesome
The Right – and Wrong – Way to Have a Threesome

With multiple partners comes multiple desires and points of view.

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